I think the power of revenge can be a huge, huge motivator to go after your goal and achieve them. However, you can't sit in the problem that caused you having feelings of revenge because that will only freeze (analysis paralysis) you and not move you forward. "I will show you attitude" can be very powerful and I wish I had more of that energy in me to get where I want to go sooner! But at the same time, I worked my ass off to feel peaceful and complete which is my forever fountain of youth. Stress will age you, letting go of worries and feeling relaxed will keep you young.
If you like to go go go by all means do that but you also have to consider your personality when you choose a profession. A bad fit will bring unhappiness and struggle at work so knowing yourself is very important. I don't always agree to hustle your way to success, I believe in hard work, being self-aware and being strategic with your choices when picking a job or a promotion.
Ryan Serhant is from the Million Dollar listing NY and I love that show. He is talking about the power of revenge, number 3-Find your fuel, and how to use it to your advantage. I don't agree with everything he is talking about but you may get something out of this!
My name is Annica Johansson and I am a Career and Talent Coach. I am writing about personal development, daily musings, spirituality and depicting mother nature's amazing beauty.