Are you too nice! I am reading about different topics around dating and how to make a relationship work for both partners. People pleasing is not on the top of the list for women to be/act anymore. That is called a doormat and most people do not like people pleasers. Taking each other for granted is never a good thing at the early stages of a relationship but looking like a control freak is just as unappealing and being too needy will only create stress for you and your partner. Being self-sufficient has always been a top priority for me and that I am fully capable of taking care of myself and most of my friends have the same values. We work hard for our money and we know what we like and do not like. I could also mention something like men can be intimidated by successful and strong women but I will leave that for another time (another huge and sensitive topic). Women who are willing to put themselves first will also attract men who appreciate that so continue swiping lol. At the same time make sure that you care and are kind meanwhile you are being self-sufficient, there is nothing wrong to show that you need your man as they like to be the protector.
My name is Annica Johansson and I am a Career and Talent Coach. I am writing about personal development, daily musings, spirituality and depicting mother nature's amazing beauty.