Can you feel the clouds coming in fast and building up on the horizon? How do you deal with your problems when you can see them building up every day? If you are a very independent person you probably tackle the problem by yourself and sit in your pain alone. Alone with your thoughts that are slowly gnarling away on your self-esteem and peace of mind. Anxiety and hopelessness may replace your positive feelings and it may only get worse from here. But there is a way to make things better and that is to share and disclose your feelings and thoughts to another person. Put it all on the table so you don't have to carry the burden anymore. On the other hand, if you are really good at sharing your problems with others maybe you need to sit in some quiet reflection to see what is really going on in your world. Maybe you are more of a complainer than finding a solution to your problem which may create more negativity around you than necessary. My suggestion would be to tackle the problem head on rather than talking about it or talking behind somebody's back. Clear the air with the person (if it has to do with a person of course) and see if you can sit down with him/her and figure it out. I am sure the other person can sense that there are some unfinished business between the two of you and will welcome your presence. Simplify your life and get rid of the drama and any burden that may hold you back to live your life fully.
My name is Annica Johansson and I am a Career and Talent Coach. I am writing about personal development, daily musings, spirituality and depicting mother nature's amazing beauty.