Every human being is a universe. Think about that for a second. To get into the core of another person's feelings and thoughts will require some work. You have to be patient, asking questions, being present, open an early communication in the relationship and not being afraid to dig deeper. Which all in all means that you also have to open up and be vulnerable to find a deeper meaning in the relationship. If this is not being established early in the relationship it will be very hard to do this later on. When you set the goal posts for how the relationship will be working in the early stages, as well as knowing each others love language, you may have an easier ride to deal with problems in the future.
But when shit hits the fan do not expect things to change all of a sudden. The way you deal with anything is how you deal with everything and if you have not put in an effort to have an open communication and dealing with conflict in a mature manner between each other, then you will experience the same old ways.
My name is Annica Johansson and I am a Career and Talent Coach. I am writing about personal development, daily musings, spirituality and depicting mother nature's amazing beauty.