"Each personality draws to itself personalities with the consciousness of like frequency, or like weakness. Therefore, the world of an angry person is filled with angry people, the world of a greedy person is filled with greedy people, and a loving person lives in a world of loving people." - Gary Zukav. Most of my friends have the same values as me but I am not sure I agree with this when it comes to choosing my life partner. And I see many friends choosing the opposite energy of themselves and I think we do that to learn a lot of lessons in this life.
We have all heard that opposite attracts and I see myself most of the time attracting the opposite energy and I can see a reason for that. I can handle my buddies having the same values and characteristics as myself but it would be hard to live with a life partner with similar characteristics as myself as it would be very boring and nothing new would be introduced into my life. It's almost like I would order the same dish at a restaurant which would be a recipe for a dull lifestyle. But at the same time, I would need to be with somebody who has similar attachment style as myself, and I have an avoidant with secure attachment style which means I would not be attracted to a man who is needy or have an anxious attachment style. I also go for extremely independent dogs lol, which says a lot. I am a very positive person and I am not surprised that I am attracted to negative guys to a certain extent, however, if their negativity will wear me down I would be out. But when you understand your differences and able to talk about them you will live a happy life. PS my latest art work....trippy lol!
My name is Annica Johansson and I am a Career and Talent Coach. I am writing about personal development, daily musings, spirituality and depicting mother nature's amazing beauty.